Get help to be you.

If a baker tries to design her new cafe, build an oven, paint the ceiling and repair the plumbing system all by herself, she can do that, yet it will take a while until she can start baking.

When we are building something and going somewhere, we can try to do everything by ourselves. There is the fun in learning seemingly everything. Yet when we don't rely on the magic of help, we are also reducing the magic from the work that only we can do.